This article reopens the debate on feminist intimacy by critically examining Carla Lonzi’s separatist view of autonomy. It argues that authentic relationships do not require radical independence or emotional withdrawal, but flourish through interdependence, where autonomy and shared connection coexist. By challenging Lonzi, it explores how authenticity can expand within relational bonds, offering a fresh perspective on feminist relationality and the sacred feminine.

Karmic encounters awaken deep emotions and mirror hidden parts of ourselves. They are not accidents, but opportunities for profound healing and growth. In this article, Barbara Wilde explores the nature of these powerful connections, offering insights from psychology, philosophy, and coaching to help transform emotional pain into self-awareness and empowerment.