The following pages propose a feminist epistemology that centres embodiment, somatic intelligence, emotional resonance, and generative capacity—not as metaphors or social constructions, but as ontological facts with epistemic consequences. It attempts to restore visibility and theoretical weight to what has been structurally forgotten: the obvious.

This article reopens the debate on feminist intimacy by critically examining Carla Lonzi’s separatist view of autonomy. It argues that authentic relationships do not require radical independence or emotional withdrawal, but flourish through interdependence, where autonomy and shared connection coexist. By challenging Lonzi, it explores how authenticity can expand within relational bonds, offering a fresh perspective on feminist relationality and the sacred feminine.

Going deep within yourself is like descending into the ocean: the deeper you go, the more you must adapt, change pace, breathe differently, and listen to your body. This inner journey reveals how far we have been willing to suffer in order to fit into our environment. Self-awareness is not about digging to hurt yourself, but about recognising the moment when it is time to stop doing so and choose healthier boundaries.